Over the years, I have have been a part of, or as an outsider looking into, traumatic experiences. Trauma is never supposed to happen, but at times it can be seen in our lives. I too, have found myself wondering how and why trauma must be part of our lives: knowing that the damage being done never makes sense. During the trauma state, we are unable to organize our experiences and make meaning of them in a way that makes predictable sense: we then are impacted long term and in areas of our life that too make no sense. EMDR is way to help make sense out of trauma. My hope for you, if that I may help you heal, and find your Collateral Beauty.